March 11, 2008

  •             "Sex Scandals:  Spitzer, Hypocrisy, and BFK"

    So with the recent announcement that corruption-fighting NY Governor Eliot Spitzer had been involved with a prostitution ring, there have understandably been cries of hypocrisy.  It all sort of reminds us of President Clinton, the Reverend Jimmy Swaggart, and that married Senator who got caught propositioning a male police officer in the bathroom.  It was about SEX SCANDAL.  But to me, it's about more than that....to me, it's about HYPOCRISY, something I fear the most.

    I don't want to ride the fence between morality and immorality to avoid appearing the hypocrite, but I still cannot commit to being this completely moral Christian guy who demands that others be moral also.  I could so easily be involved in sex scandal.  Maybe that's why I try to present myself as the worst of human beings on this blog, with an overfondness for banging the female gender.

    If word got out on Xanga that BFK slept with a girl of ill repute.....people would go, "Is anyone surprised?  Look how much he likes sex!  Hell, read his blog!"  So maybe it's a defense mechanism on my part that, in the past, I would write about how I went on a date with a girl and then banged her.   I want you to all know I'm a human.  Plus I'm a 'ho dog.

    And now that I am trying to be this good Christian, I have yet to really post about being moral and such, encouraging others to follow certain behavior guidelines....because I know that at a moment's weakness, I could find myself being naughty and entering the Big Forest (well, with girls these days, it's more like the Bare Canyon) like an overly curious turtle.

    So what to do to prevent appearing the hypocrite?  Do I tell everyone I meet for the first time, "Hi, my name is <BFK's name>, and even though I am a Christian, I like sex with girls; I also like alcohol; sometimes I like them both at the same time!" to protect myself in case I DO get caught in a sex scandal?  Bad as that is, at least I wouldn't appear as bad as someone like a married pastor or church official posting up Bible verses all the time but who then gets caught banging a chick.  Because even more than getting caught doing something sinful I really fear appearing to be a hypocrite who was stands on his moral pedestal when he got caught.

    But I am realizing that that is not good either.  I should live the most moral life I can.  I should encourage others to do so also.  But it's hard when I know that I of all people am the LAST person in this world to demand that everyone be moral and upright.

Comments (9)

  • puhahah insightful BFK Oppa!

  • Hell, as long as we're human, who cares?  I have faith and I like to bang every so often, so what?  Live the way we see as best and have fun with it.  After all, we can't be prudes ALL the time...  I'd go psychotic...  not that it's already happened, hehehe.

  • people sin. it's human nature. at least though as Christians we can repent.

  • It's easy to fall back on, "Heck, at least I'm not a hypocrite."

    Funny, I can actually understand pastors/senators getting involved with scandals because they're human as well. They have their moments of weakness as well. Doesn't mean we should/can succumb to our weaknesses all the time though, right? Man... it's a tough struggle.

  • Happy Hump Day BFK Oppa! have an awesome day! ryc: nooo Dr. Pain is my bro as in pain in the ass heheheh

  • "Big Forest (well, with girls these days, it's more like the Bare Canyon)"

    i like both kinds of topography. mmm.. i like it alot.. i'll cause a brush fire either way.

    thanks for the encouragement bfk.   I already know im not meant to lead a WEALTHY life, but im happier following God's will.

    n yeah good not to be a hypocrite.  I'm torn.. fornication vs sex after marriage. .. its a continuous battle. Maybe it woulda been easier if i didnt know how good it was, and stayed a virgin.. haha

  • kudos to you for admitting youre a horndog!

  • Happy Friday BFK Oppa and my mommy says thanks =)

  • you're only a hypocrite when it's in the present (and you judge others for doing it). you can't be a hypocrite for something you did in the past and are no longer doing because you consciously "corrected" yourself. so try to stand upright, don't be afraid to make mistakes, and be an advisor, not a finger-pointer.

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